http://vlovers.com/forum/ A community of lovers to discuss issues relating to their love life & philosophy, unique love poems, romance tips en-US Sun, 05 Feb 2012 16:03:56 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q http://vlovers.com/forum/search.php http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/dating-site-to-help-workaholics-for-finding-life-partner#post-1875 Wed, 11 Jan 2012 09:56:08 +0000 shareesage 1875@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>The reception we received in Houston has exceeded our expectations by a long shot. A lot of the success has to do solely with the people we’ve hired to run our office. They are exceptional individuals, who not only take the time to truly listen to our clients, but they take a personal interest in our member’s social lives as well. Michael McKinney, a father of three children, heads Introductions Inc’s Houston operations. Michael says that letting people experience the fulfillment of a happy marriage and helping people build relationships rooted in honesty and trust is what he strives for. Michael has experienced this life and he wants everyone to experience what he has!</p> <p>Introductions Inc offers personal matchmaking and introduction services, along with local events for Singles. All Introductions Inc members go through a rigorous background check to verify their criminal background records, financial stability, and overall readiness to start a serious relationship. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/intro-please-introduce-urself#post-4 Mon, 30 Mar 2009 14:52:47 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 4@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Let us use this platform (vlovers forum) to develop loving and befriending relation with fellow members... This would not only help us make new friends but also get us to d next level of reaches and communication n co operation.... :-)</p> <p>So friends, boys n girls, 8O post introduction of urs here... :arrow: lets know each other and share what we have in store... 8) </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-540 Sun, 30 Jan 2011 18:04:02 +0000 angel2011 540@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi everyone.</p> <p>I don't know if I am at right place to seek advice.</p> <p>I don't know where to start from, to explain my issue. So I am writing every thing in detail. Sorry for the long long story.</p> <p>OK. I am 24 yr old South Indian Hindu gal and the guy I have issue with is 21 yr old a Catholic from Kerala. We both are in Canada. I have described about this guy in one of my last paragraphs.</p> <p>In 2006, I started a part-time student job at a restaurant as front staff. Then this guy started working at the same place in 2007 as part-time student too. In the beginning, we were just friendly to each other sometimes jokes, arguments, teasing each other etc. Then after a year and a half or so, he changed his attitude towards me like talking less, showing kindness, sometimes smiling, sometimes serious or sometimes just staring. Then one day while i was just talking with one of his friend who is also my co-worker slipped out of his mouth that this guy has crush on me. I just heard it and went away from there. I didn't take it seriously at all as I thought it must be like one of his stupid pranks. I pretended as if I haven't heard it properly. Even though if it was kinda true still I didn't wanted to accept it. I have explained the reasons for this in one of last few paragraphs. Then, as usual the same attitude was continued.</p> <p>Then I went to India for a month of vacation. When I came back from India, I noticed some kind of happiness on his face when we saw each other. Even myself. I don't know why. And he continued the same attitude again. Yet, I was behaving normally with him as I used to. Then, whenever I had a shift to work and he doesn't, he started staring at me sometimes from outside the store through a glass window where he used to park his car at distance in a parking lot right across the window. Days passed away like that.</p> <p>I don't know exactly what he meant for his staring whether as a joke or serious. I have to admit that he hadn't any bad intentions with that staring. Coz, much against my wish, I eventually get lost in his eyes whenever we make an eye contact. At that time, my heart falters in doubts of hope and despair. Wish I cud read exactly the language of his eyes.</p> <p>Then, sometimes we used to have shifts at different days and different timings. At those times I started having this strange feeling. Like i used to miss him, eager to see him. When I see him I used to be happy. And sometimes when we used to work together, I used to ask him to help for silly things. Despite of that he still used to help. But, Still we didn't communicate with each other that much.</p> <p>Then in 2009 beginning of the summer, I got admission from a university(which is very far away from that place) to start from September. So I informed my manager about it that i have to quit the job in two months. Somehow all the staff came to knew about it including him. Then I noticed that he seemed so upset. He didn't try to show it but i kinda read his face. Everyone were asking questions about me leaving them but he didn't utter a word. He started taking night shifts and I used to hardly see him at work. Then on the last day of my job, everyone came to the workplace to say me bye even his friends. I was looking throughout my shift if he comes and says bye to me. But he didn't. I thought he just has no courtesy to say bye. My shift was over , my dad came to pick me up. And as i stepped outside, what i see is, he is sitting in his car next to my dads car, just seeing me leaving. That last eye contact continuously for like a min was extremely painful for me. I couldn't speak to him coz my dad was next to me.</p> <p>It always questions in my mind that if he was along with his friends on that day then why did he come inside with them to say me bye. Instead he sat in his car until I left and watch me going.</p> <p>But when we had an eye lock moment at those last few minutes was breathtaking like I almost stopped breathing for a moment. As hard as I try to describe what I saw and felt in His eyes, I fall short every time. I heard nothing, said nothing. Yet, why I was restless at heart?</p> <p>ABOUT HIM: Basically, as far as I know him at workplace for like 3 years, what I came to know gradually in these 3 years was that he is sort of a different guy among his friends. He and his friends are well known to my other coworkers. What i came to know from them was that, while all of his friends have girlfriends and always talk about girls and etc. etc., he doesn't even have one girlfriend. But he is normally very friendly and helpful to everyone as I noticed. And always cracking jokes sometimes silly.</p> <p>Now at present since i have come here so far. Its been a more than a year and, I keep thinking of him always, dream of him, his eyes. A strange feeling torments my heart. But I cannot contact him neither can he as i don't know his phone no. I cant even go and meet him as I live so far now.</p> <p>REASONS: At one side I wanted him but at the same time I didn't want to fall in this pit as :-<br /> 1) our relationship will not be accepted at all by my parents coz of age difference and different religion.<br /> 2)I don't know if he still likes me or not and if he does is it more than just a crush or not?<br /> 3) I have no clue where to start from to know about this. I don't know if he is still working there or not.<br /> 4) I had this thought in my mind that even if i accept him now, it will be fine for sometime coz we will be together as wanted. But, later on, when it is time to tell our parents about us, they wont accept it. And the pain that it will give of falling apart will be more painful than it is right now.</p> <p>But now i am helpless. Why I keep thinking of him, dreaming of him? I feel like something is dragging me.</p> <p>Can this be love or is it something else?</p> <p>please give me suggestions. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/lines-that-direct-straight-frm-my-heart-to-hers#post-46 Sun, 19 Apr 2009 14:14:48 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 46@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Jab apki gf apse naraz hoti hai to ap kya karte ho :?: Naraz hona aur fir manana , ye love life ka spice hai...<br /> Meri gf mujhse naraz hui thi to mai usse apne andaz me manaya tha... maine use internet pe message kia tha aur wo maan gayi thi, ye mera andaz hai, apka ???<br /> maine jo message kia tha apke samne rakh raha hu, sayad apke kam ye lines kabhi aa jaye.... :wink:<br /> ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~!<br /> maine chand se puchha ki meri<br /> maine chand se puchha ki mera gift kya hai<br /> to chand ne kaha ki hai koi super special sundar ehsaas<br /> jo tumse dur baitha kar raha hai tera aas<br /> har pal har lamha jine ko tere sath<br /> de de tu usko apna hath<br /> maine chand se puchha fir uska kya hai naam<br /> tere labo ki pyas hai saanso ki aas hai<br /> teri jindagi ka jaam hai [i] nikita [/i] uska naam hai<br /> maine fir chand se puchha kaisi hai wo dikhne me<br /> to chand ne kaha ki usske alawa tumne koi dekha na hoga sundar<br /> dekhte hi usko jee karega basa lu dil ke andar<br /> sine se sata lu, dil me chhupaa lu<br /> paani me aag hai , andhera me chirag hai<br /> dard pe marham hai, usko khone se bara na koi gam hai<br /> aisi hai wo<br /> ... fir maine chand se puchha kya meri uske sath setting ho sakti hai ?<br /> to chand kahta hai wo aisi pari hai<br /> teri jindagi ki anokhi kari hai, tere pyar ki lari hai<br /> tujhpe chhayi hai, teri jindagi me samayi hai<br /> teri uske sath setting upar se (god se) ban kar aayi hai<br /> fir maine chand se kaha ki maine to uska dil dukhaya hai bahut<br /> to chand ne kaha ae murakh bewakuf, kuchh kar jaldi isse pahle wo jaye chhut<br /> to maine kaha kya karu<br /> to chand ne kaha jis kari me tum dono ho bandhe,<br /> us kari me jiyo jindagi ko mila kar kandhe<br /> sun meri bat, na dega tera koi sath<br /> hai ek hi jo hai tere dil se dil ki dharkan<br /> wo hi hai teri tarpan<br /> mana lo usko, chance do khudko<br /> fir maine chand ko kaha ki mai jina chahta hu uski baaho me<br /> mai urna chahta hu uski panaho me<br /> pyar karna chahta hu uske sine se lipat kar<br /> umra bhar umra bhar umra bhar umra bhar<br /> to chand ne kaha abhi nahi hui hai der<br /> wo hi teri jindagi ki surat hai sirat hai khwaish hai<br /> tu uske pyar ki azmaish hai<br /> nahi hone dena uski azmaish ko fail<br /> fir maine kaha chand ko ki mai usse manaunga<br /> jee bhar ke chahunga<br /> pyar karunga<br /> intezaar karunga<br /> aitbaar karunga<br /> to chand ne kaha ki aage kya karna hai ye bhi batana parega kya<br /> to maine kaha nahi aage jo karunga wo mai khud hi apni [i] nikita [/i] ko karke bataunga<br /> fir maine chand ko alvida kaha<br /> aur apni chand ko ye saara message kia<br /> yani tumko<br /> [i] saurabh ki nikita ko [/i]<br /> i love u jaanu........... </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/sacha-pyar#post-142 Sat, 18 Jul 2009 11:21:23 +0000 saurab 142@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Agar kabhi aisa ho ki aap jisse love karte ho jb aapko pta chale ki wo kisi aur se commmited hai to aap kya kroge :P aap use chol doge ya use pane ki kosis kroge :o wo kehti hai ki wo aapko sirf apna ek best friend manti hai aur isi liye wo apka care b krti hai bt aapko lgta hai ki aap use uske boy friend se jada khusi de sakte ho to kya aap use pane k liy kuch b kroge ya phir ye soch kr us use bhul jaoge ki aapka uske sath kuch ho hi nhi skta????<br /> aur ha aap usse itna pyar karte ho ki aap usse ek din bina bat kiye reh bhi nhi skte ho to kya aap use bhul paoge?????<br /> tell me friends<br /> tell d truth </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/dost-ya-pyar#post-68 Sun, 03 May 2009 22:34:01 +0000 nikita patel 68@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>agar koi esa halat aye ki dost ya pyar ko chunana pade to app kisko chunoge??? :-) :( </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/i-luv-u#post-141 Wed, 08 Jul 2009 14:43:13 +0000 vickyraj28 141@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>I love you not only for what you are, but for what I am when I am with you. I love you not only for what you have made of yourself, but for what you are making of me. I love you for the part of me that you bring out. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/big-problem-1#post-572 Tue, 03 May 2011 21:55:14 +0000 Sudhanshu Agarwal 572@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>I SUDHANSHU IS IN LOVE WITH SOME ONE.I LOVE HER SO MUCH THAT I CAN DO ANY THING FOR HER AND THE MY LOVE IS WITH HER SHE CAN ALSO DO ANY THING FOR ME.WE LOVE EACH OTHER.BUT THE BIG PROBLEM IS THAT WE ARE UNABLE TO SHARE OUR VIEWS WITH EACH OTHER BECAUSE OF HER MAUSI AND HER MOTHER.WHAT TO DO???????????????????????????????? </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/big-problem#post-571 Tue, 03 May 2011 21:54:21 +0000 Sudhanshu Agarwal 571@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>I SUDHANSHU IS IN LOVE WITH SOME ONE.I LOVE HER SO MUCH THAT I CAN DO ANY THING FOR HER AND THE MY LOVE IS WITH HER SHE CAN ALSO DO ANY THING FOR ME.WE LOVE EACH OTHER.BUT THE BIG PROBLEM IS THAT WE ARE UNABLE TO SHARE OUR VIEWS WITH EACH OTHER BECAUSE OF HER MAUSI AND HER MOTHER.WHAT TO DO???????????????????????????????? </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/kya-kr-kuch-samj-nahi-aata#post-563 Tue, 26 Apr 2011 22:13:25 +0000 vikaskhurmi 563@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>hiiiiiii<br /> frnds, meri gf hai 2 saal se hum pura serios hai,hum ek dusre ki puri respect krte hai. hamari achi understanding hai,problem is that status mein meri gf ki family hum se achi hai jab bhi mein ye baat krta hu agar tumare gharwale na maane toh???? es baat pe wo hamesha chup ho jati mein kya kru </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/please-read-and-suggest#post-562 Sat, 23 Apr 2011 13:46:53 +0000 novice 562@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi all,</p> <p>Pls read it with patience, as this is something about which i seriously need some great piece of advice.</p> <p>Just to tell you a little about my personality, I have never proposed to any girl in my life earlier and although I come across as a fun loving, cheerful character amongst the guys group in my campus. The scene was not the same with girls, where most of the times i used not to speak much except with 2-3 few who were very close frds.</p> <p>I met this girl during my MBA, she was my classmate. I noticed her on the first day itself, thought it would be just another short term crush, but it wasn't. This girl I always felt defined the ideal girl which I have always imagined my future partner to be. She was moving around with somebody else (another classmate) during college days, although I wasn't clear if they were dating as it was not that frequent, but still I kept mum during my complete MBA (which I believe was my big mistake). College ended, during the placements we both were lucky enough to get placed with the best of the brands amid recession. Since we never spoke much during college, after college it was just the occasional chats on gmail/fb that we used to have. all this while i thought she is still dating that guy. </p> <p>But this was not the case, the guy got married 6-7 months back. And 2 years have passed since we had passed out of college. Although here I would like to thank god, that since the past few months she started talking to me on gmail/fb chats quite frequently. Much to the extent that if any of us wasn't online we will call each other up, msg to ask abt the whereabouts. I would like to be very clear that this was not like internet frd case, as we knew each other quite well during college.</p> <p>A month back or so we started having long conversation on phone as well, with occasional banter moving towards she calling me to the city where she lives currently, and i jokingly asking her to take a transfer to the city I am living in. I always felt i should atleast tell her now that I still have the feelings which were there 4 years back and infact with this close terms the feelings have grown much stronger.</p> <p>I did so, around 15 days back after we had a long telephonic conversation, she said she enjoyed talking to me, i took the conversation in that direction and told her that i had a crush on her during college, now the feelings have become even stronger. To this her response was like- OMG, why didnt u tell me? I wouldnt have said no to you, you were a cool guy. I told her the reasons i kept quiet all this while. She was delighted and said she was happy that i finally told her this thing. Next 2-3 days were fantastic, she used to talk to me more frequently on phone, chat and msgs. But after that she has deliberately started controlling her behaviour. </p> <p>I am a personality who thinks a lot when somebody doesnt responds to my chat/msgs, this started happening after that. I kind of was upset, so dropped her a msg as well that this silence is keeping me down all day long. To this she replied back she is just keeping a little busy. The next day she initiated herself in a teasing way to ask if i m being too pricy by not talking to her that day. I kind of became positive again. She called up the next day when i was a little busy, and same thing happened over the weekend with long conversations. Although my assumption here is that she likes me as a friend, but she told me the last time we spoke that she doesnt want the expectations to build up from any side. And since she is from another religion (although from a well to do family), she is a little skeptical if we can carry it forward. I told her that should not be a problem if we both are clear that we love each other. I feel because of this reason she is deliberately controlling herself. That is why I hd asked her to be normal as she was prior to the time I told her about my feelings. She isnt talking that frequently now. This week we chatted occasionaly, some messages to which she hasn't replied. I am not feeling good about all this, although I am sure she will call back if i dont talk to her for 2-3 days. But its difficult for me to handle this.</p> <p>Lastly just to put things more clearly here, i have told her that I am not looking for a girlfrend, infact i am looking for a future partner and I am quite sure of her as my future partner. Would request to please give me an independent perspective to this. As since the things havent moved on much and I am in no way in a mood to let her go this time (obviously if i get an indication that she takes it positively).</p> <p>Tensed and confused.. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/need-advice#post-223 Sat, 05 Dec 2009 02:48:09 +0000 1f1s1y1n 223@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>i am a 16 year old boy, i have never had a girlfriend before, well actualy i never liked anyone as much as this girl i saw (actualy i see her almost everyday) she was in my batch a few months back, i know her for about 5 1/2 months (waited a lot) i havent spoken to, well we never came across each other, i just can&#39;t get her out my head nowadays i think i am in what they call love, need some advice on how to even spark a conversation with her. Hope someone might help, would provide more details if someone replies. :-) </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/how-many-lovers-are-committed#post-58 Sat, 25 Apr 2009 14:28:01 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 58@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>hello friends,, Out of curiosity, I am putting forward this question... Do u believe in one love ? Are u committed.. Have u found one n only life partner (d other half) of urs :?: And when ur relationship status changed from single to committed :o </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/love-parents-dilemma-advices#post-553 Sun, 13 Mar 2011 16:33:43 +0000 PinkyLuvsU 553@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>I am Pinky, 19years Old.I am in love with a boy of my age. We are in relationship for about 10 months.Both of us have not taken our relation to be a college romance or teen love. We are serious about it!.But just after one month of our journey,His father caught us and called me secretly and advised to stop everything and move on.If not he'll let my parents know, and his mobile was banned.But since, Love is at its peak, he began using a secret phone and we kept in contact and we enjoyed in college.In the 4th month, his father once again caught us. And then, came to see my parents, and it all turned out to be really messy!But my parents though is strictly against all this, handled it smoothly and is behaving as if nothing has happened. They are making a very comfortable atmosphere at home and I am alloted full freedom as before.But on the contrary, everything is terrible at his house.Mom-dad keep taunting him about me, When he sits alone, they say, you are thinking about her and all.All in all, for every little thing, they make the hell out of it taking my name.Even his relatives does put this topic during their family get together's. He never gets peace of mind.He is trying his maximum to control his mind, but they again bring this topic and butchers him in short!We are still in contact..But, he is all in despair.He thinks that he is giving me hope when everything is negative at his home and thats bothering him!, he loves me a lot. Therefore, we are still moving on.But I cant see him suffering like this..We thought a lot.. Thinking about parting is next too unimaginable, since we cant! At the same time, cannot hurt parents in future by eloping or that stuff!!Can anyone advise us what to be done!?? I have just briefed the matter!.. thanks a lot in advance! </p> <p>A small Idea of the family :<br /> Mine, I am from Cochin,Kerala an urban family. my parents are orthodox but kind enough to understand the new generation and their preference.My dad is more like a friend to me.For mom, dad's word is the ultimate decision.So, for them, when this issue came, it was a shock, but they handled it extremely well.</p> <p>My Boy : A village family which is well settled. Bounded with traditional aspects yet modern but not so very outward in their thinking!. Dad is very very strict and still gives him a beating if he has done something wrong.Mom - is very innocent but she keeps worrying and telling about one matter on and on and on.Its her fear, but very shallow at heart!.. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/a-question#post-541 Tue, 01 Feb 2011 06:46:23 +0000 angel2011 541@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi Saurabh,</p> <p>I have joined your website recently. Are you still using this website or forum for advising people? Or have you got another similar website or forum?</p> <p>Bye </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/my-it-girl#post-538 Mon, 24 Jan 2011 23:41:17 +0000 Arush 538@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>This is just a msg, sirf uske liye.</p> <p>Usey dekhkar din ki suruat hoti h, aur usey dekhkar din khatm hota. Mujhe nhi pata that she has the same feeling as i have for her infact even i don't know that whether she know me or not. </p> <p>Usey na dekhu toh dukh hota h, door se hi sahi par yadi woh dikh jaye toh dil ko sukun pahuchta h. Usey dekhne ke liye pehle uske department jata hu, phir apne department jata hu class attend karne.<br /> Nothing going right! Kuch din bache hai college k aur phir sab khatm. Pata nhi kabhi kuch keh pauonga ya nhi. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/0-1#post-525 Sat, 06 Nov 2010 14:57:39 +0000 ibrahim 525@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>tell me some questions 2 sk my gf ...she calls me every 2 hrs and i m not talkative at all </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/i-need-your-help#post-317 Thu, 13 May 2010 12:26:24 +0000 heartlylove 317@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>help </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/please-help-me#post-316 Thu, 13 May 2010 12:15:10 +0000 heartlylove 316@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi dears</p> <p>i want shares some my history i love one girl so much last 2 years back we met in office i am admin officer and she was sales coordinator every time my targets i am help all my staff members etc... days was going fast in my mind i want good &amp; true friendship &amp; i am close to close but she is already boy friend and she was normal love but not so much every time my wish i am helping her when i am helping her she was very happy days going fast to fast some time i am purchasing red roses, gifts sweets and many more in my mind we are good &amp; true friend some time she was going with me bus stop, near to home, purchasing some books ets...i dont no when she living in my heart but some time i observe she was not frienship me but i dont no i love her last years i am very miss every time i heared she was wedding she was no invite me i dont no but my some office members attend his wedding i am so love and she is every time my imaginings etc... i dont no she was happy or not but every time prayer her and my wish i see and tells my heart voices my words but i heared she was out of country and i am also out of country i need your help, suggestions and gide lines </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/ihave-no-girlfriend-what-can-i-do#post-186 Thu, 20 Aug 2009 20:26:34 +0000 abhimanyu_g3 186@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>hiiiiii what is the simplest way to imperss the girls </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/girls-are-good-but-not-all#post-5 Tue, 31 Mar 2009 14:49:12 +0000 lovedies 5@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>:twisted: 8)</p> <p>i think so that girls are good but not all </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/the-song-that-tunes-ur-heart-in-rhythm#post-12 Sat, 04 Apr 2009 09:04:37 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 12@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Music is closely attached with our heartbeat.. Each day, we listen to one or more songs.. Our liking for a particular song changes with mood, time and other factors..<br /> In this thread, post the song with which u r stuck to at this moment (these days) :?:</p> <p>At present, I m stuck to hindi song : ringa ringa from slumdog millionaire.. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/ask-your-partner-what-they-want-and-need#post-275 Thu, 25 Feb 2010 18:04:04 +0000 addymark 275@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi Guys!!<br /> This is my advise to committed and married people that In happy and lovely marriage life, This is one of the most important ingredients, yet most overlooked. Most often, people give their partner what they want themselves. The better approach is to ask your partner, &quot;What can I do to help?&quot; or &quot;What do you need?&quot; </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/she-changed-me-from-what-i-used-to-be#post-50 Tue, 21 Apr 2009 15:52:49 +0000 ashu 50@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>i was running blind on the wrong side.<br /> no aim no name no home to reside.<br /> on the way, I found a ray of light.<br /> which taught me whats wrong and whats right.</p> <p>as far as i remember,my life was nothing but an abuse.<br /> i had no meaning for life, i was so confused.<br /> every thing was boring, nothing seem to amuse.<br /> but now i have a whole lot world which i cant afford to loose.</p> <p>never bowed before anyone but for her i m always on knees.<br /> she changed me from what i always used to be.<br /> i have forgot whats she and whats me.<br /> all i care is about WE.<br /> she changed me from what i used to be.</p> <p>my new world is all made of u.<br /> ur smile makes bright sunshine and ur eyes the sky blue.<br /> ur breath is like my air and ur tears form my rain. (and i hate rainy days) :roll:<br /> u r there in every emotion- my happiness my sensation my ecstacy and even in pain.<br /> - I(ashu) wrote this poem as dedication to my beloved, my life, my light - pihu </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-it-rude-way-of-saying-its-over#post-210 Fri, 25 Sep 2009 22:53:13 +0000 Neena 210@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>6 months ago I started a relationship with a guy and it seems like a movie. We really loved each other. I could see in his eyes how much he loves me sometimes. He was so nice and so unhappy whenever I felt bad about something between us and always said sorry.<br /> I was on a 3 days vacation and when i came back he said he is having really big problems with his friends and his flat and he needs some time alone.<br /> I asked if this is break up? He said he doesnt know.<br /> I asked again if he loves me?He said he doesnt know.<br /> And i gave him some time.<br /> But, two days after I called him and asked him why he is pushing me away of it and If he really doesnt want me anymore, I would be sad , but It would be better If i know it, right on. All he said was sorry. I need time<br /> I kind of know the answer that we are through, but why would he delay it not saying it right on?<br /> And, can I really hope our silly plans to become truth after he solves his problems?<br /> All i know is that if i have problem I wouldnt push someone away, I would want their support in my life.<br /> So, I repeat, If we are done, Why I dont get that answer right on?Why should I be tortured?</p> <p>P.S. Two weeks ago he asked me to pick our kids names knowing I dont even want kids, he said :this is gonna be our house, and asked me to promise him : We gonna tell our grandchildren where we have met. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/love-problem#post-213 Fri, 02 Oct 2009 14:57:45 +0000 ankit.317 213@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>8O dear love guru,<br /> main ek ladki se pyaar karta hun . uska naam shatakshi hai.uske sath pehle kafi flirt hua tha. but maine sab kuch thikh kar diya.hum dono ek dusre se bahut jyada pyaar bhi karte hai but ab wo kehti mere dil main apke liye koi feelings nai paida hoti.wo non veg batain b karti hai or blue films bhi dekhti hai.wo kehti hai k apki persenality nai hai. main kya karun use ignore karun ki kya karun...plz </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/why-did-she-left-me#post-47 Sun, 19 Apr 2009 16:08:10 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 47@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>"At one time or other in my life, I have fallen in love.. Someone who seemed to be everything heavenly has ditched me, left me alone, scattered my feelings, choked my heart n my heartbeat..... " - says a lover who has no more hope n belief in love. 8O . But d point to ponder is that I still call him lover coz d lover in him never dies......<br /> Through this topic, I invite all lovers to point out the event or condition in which ur girlfriend with whom u n ur soft heart has been attached to, has left u.. So that others can take a lesson and beware in future.... help ur fellows to identify d so-called true love... :roll:<br /> This thread is not just for boys, girls also post about ur boyfriend or love who deserted u when u needed him d most... </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/do-girls-really-like-sweet-guys-or-am-i-hopeless#post-273 Tue, 23 Feb 2010 16:51:54 +0000 addymark 273@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Recently, I have noticed that I hopelessly fall in love. I can never tell when or if a girl likes me. This is really hard.I found a girl who is very sweet to me. She tells me that I am the sweetest guy she has ever met and that she loves me. She also has a boyfriend. She talks to him about me and things like that.I really do think I like her.What do you think I should do?<br /> Do girls really like sweet guys or am I hopeless? </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/what-i-slove#post-280 Fri, 26 Feb 2010 17:50:52 +0000 moon 280@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>wel my question is that i love someone very much and he loves me to bt he doesnt want yo marry even with noone and i dont force him too.but i cant live without him too and he says that if u really love me than u have to stay remain single for me till end so plz nw guide wat i should do. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/community#post-232 Sat, 20 Feb 2010 15:27:02 +0000 luconlie104 232@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>No bad community, very no bad </p>