http://vlovers.com/forum/ A community of lovers to discuss issues relating to their love life & philosophy, unique love poems, romance tips en-US Sun, 05 Feb 2012 15:24:12 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q http://vlovers.com/forum/search.php http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/dating-site-to-help-workaholics-for-finding-life-partner#post-1875 Wed, 11 Jan 2012 09:56:08 +0000 shareesage 1875@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>The reception we received in Houston has exceeded our expectations by a long shot. A lot of the success has to do solely with the people we’ve hired to run our office. They are exceptional individuals, who not only take the time to truly listen to our clients, but they take a personal interest in our member’s social lives as well. Michael McKinney, a father of three children, heads Introductions Inc’s Houston operations. Michael says that letting people experience the fulfillment of a happy marriage and helping people build relationships rooted in honesty and trust is what he strives for. Michael has experienced this life and he wants everyone to experience what he has!</p> <p>Introductions Inc offers personal matchmaking and introduction services, along with local events for Singles. All Introductions Inc members go through a rigorous background check to verify their criminal background records, financial stability, and overall readiness to start a serious relationship. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/intro-please-introduce-urself#post-1418 Mon, 19 Sep 2011 17:21:04 +0000 Peter 1418@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hello SaurabhStar, hi to all, I'm Peter, 25 years old. Like sport and hard work. I'd like to find my love, thanks </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-892 Thu, 07 Jul 2011 13:12:39 +0000 azara1203 892@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi<br /> I don't know what is love...<br /> thanks... </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/lines-that-direct-straight-frm-my-heart-to-hers#post-891 Thu, 07 Jul 2011 13:11:10 +0000 azara1203 891@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi</p> <p>Aaj Kal Woh Hum Se Baat Nahi Karte Hain</p> <p>Raat Se Din Aur Din Se Raat Nahi Karte Hain<br /> Aate Rehte Hain Khayalon Main Har Pal</p> <p>Par Asliyat Main Mulakaat Nahi Karte Hain<br /> Kahan Hain, Kaise Hain Aur Kis Haal Main Hain Hum</p> <p>Bereham Koi Sawalaat Nahi Karte Hain<br /> Ashkon Main Doob Gayi Hain Palkein Aur Phir Zindigi Bhi</p> <p>Band Barasna Yeh Ashq-E-Jazbaat Nahi Karte Hain<br /> Bhool Gaye Hain “muskaana”, Aur, Koshish Bhi .. Di Hai Ab To</p> <p>Kia Karein Manzoor Yeh Haalaat Nahi Karte Hain<br /> Aik Dam Aa Jaayein Who Saam Ne Aur Lag Jaayein Seene Se</p> <p>Pyaar Karte Hain Hum Un Se Sacha Koi Bataye Unhein Uff<br /> Koi Kasoor Hum Aji, Hazooraat Nahi Karte Hain</p> <p>Khafa Kyun Hain? Yeh Pata Ho To Mana Lein Un Ko<br /> Par Woh To Koi Bhi Ishaaraat Nahi Karte Hain</p> <p>“gum Naam ” Ki Patti Pe Jo Shabnam Hai Sookh Na Jaaye<br /> Kisi Ki Zindigi Yun Hi Barbaad Nahi Karte Hain</p> <p>by Linci</p> <p>Thanks... </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/sacha-pyar#post-890 Thu, 07 Jul 2011 13:08:23 +0000 azara1203 890@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi<br /> yaar ya mera sath hota hi rhata hai main married hu par mera friends muje aye din yahi bolta hai ki wo muje pyar karta hai .muje nahi samaj ata ki main kya karu......<br /> Thanks.... </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/dost-ya-pyar#post-889 Thu, 07 Jul 2011 13:04:17 +0000 azara1203 889@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi<br /> i believe in friendship....<br /> Thanks.... </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/i-luv-u#post-888 Thu, 07 Jul 2011 13:00:58 +0000 azara1203 888@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi<br /> Love me in the Springtime, when all is green and new,<br /> Love me in the Summer, when the sky is oh so blue,<br /> Love me in the Autumn, when the leaves are turning brown,<br /> Love me in the Winter, when the snow is falling down.</p> <p>Love me when I'm happy, and even when I'm sad,<br /> Love me when I'm good, or when I'm oh so bad,<br /> Love me when I'm pretty, or if my face is plain,<br /> Love me when I'm feeling good, or when I'm feeling pain.</p> <p>Love me always darlin', in the rain or shining sun,<br /> Love me always darlin', after all is said and done,<br /> Love me always darlin', until all our life is through,<br /> Love me always darlin', for I'll be lovin' you!</p> <p>- Amanda Nicole Martinez - </p> <p>Thanks... </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/big-problem-1#post-572 Tue, 03 May 2011 21:55:14 +0000 Sudhanshu Agarwal 572@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>I SUDHANSHU IS IN LOVE WITH SOME ONE.I LOVE HER SO MUCH THAT I CAN DO ANY THING FOR HER AND THE MY LOVE IS WITH HER SHE CAN ALSO DO ANY THING FOR ME.WE LOVE EACH OTHER.BUT THE BIG PROBLEM IS THAT WE ARE UNABLE TO SHARE OUR VIEWS WITH EACH OTHER BECAUSE OF HER MAUSI AND HER MOTHER.WHAT TO DO???????????????????????????????? </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/big-problem#post-571 Tue, 03 May 2011 21:54:21 +0000 Sudhanshu Agarwal 571@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>I SUDHANSHU IS IN LOVE WITH SOME ONE.I LOVE HER SO MUCH THAT I CAN DO ANY THING FOR HER AND THE MY LOVE IS WITH HER SHE CAN ALSO DO ANY THING FOR ME.WE LOVE EACH OTHER.BUT THE BIG PROBLEM IS THAT WE ARE UNABLE TO SHARE OUR VIEWS WITH EACH OTHER BECAUSE OF HER MAUSI AND HER MOTHER.WHAT TO DO???????????????????????????????? </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/kya-kr-kuch-samj-nahi-aata#post-563 Tue, 26 Apr 2011 22:13:25 +0000 vikaskhurmi 563@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>hiiiiiii<br /> frnds, meri gf hai 2 saal se hum pura serios hai,hum ek dusre ki puri respect krte hai. hamari achi understanding hai,problem is that status mein meri gf ki family hum se achi hai jab bhi mein ye baat krta hu agar tumare gharwale na maane toh???? es baat pe wo hamesha chup ho jati mein kya kru </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/please-read-and-suggest#post-562 Sat, 23 Apr 2011 13:46:53 +0000 novice 562@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi all,</p> <p>Pls read it with patience, as this is something about which i seriously need some great piece of advice.</p> <p>Just to tell you a little about my personality, I have never proposed to any girl in my life earlier and although I come across as a fun loving, cheerful character amongst the guys group in my campus. The scene was not the same with girls, where most of the times i used not to speak much except with 2-3 few who were very close frds.</p> <p>I met this girl during my MBA, she was my classmate. I noticed her on the first day itself, thought it would be just another short term crush, but it wasn't. This girl I always felt defined the ideal girl which I have always imagined my future partner to be. She was moving around with somebody else (another classmate) during college days, although I wasn't clear if they were dating as it was not that frequent, but still I kept mum during my complete MBA (which I believe was my big mistake). College ended, during the placements we both were lucky enough to get placed with the best of the brands amid recession. Since we never spoke much during college, after college it was just the occasional chats on gmail/fb that we used to have. all this while i thought she is still dating that guy. </p> <p>But this was not the case, the guy got married 6-7 months back. And 2 years have passed since we had passed out of college. Although here I would like to thank god, that since the past few months she started talking to me on gmail/fb chats quite frequently. Much to the extent that if any of us wasn't online we will call each other up, msg to ask abt the whereabouts. I would like to be very clear that this was not like internet frd case, as we knew each other quite well during college.</p> <p>A month back or so we started having long conversation on phone as well, with occasional banter moving towards she calling me to the city where she lives currently, and i jokingly asking her to take a transfer to the city I am living in. I always felt i should atleast tell her now that I still have the feelings which were there 4 years back and infact with this close terms the feelings have grown much stronger.</p> <p>I did so, around 15 days back after we had a long telephonic conversation, she said she enjoyed talking to me, i took the conversation in that direction and told her that i had a crush on her during college, now the feelings have become even stronger. To this her response was like- OMG, why didnt u tell me? I wouldnt have said no to you, you were a cool guy. I told her the reasons i kept quiet all this while. She was delighted and said she was happy that i finally told her this thing. Next 2-3 days were fantastic, she used to talk to me more frequently on phone, chat and msgs. But after that she has deliberately started controlling her behaviour. </p> <p>I am a personality who thinks a lot when somebody doesnt responds to my chat/msgs, this started happening after that. I kind of was upset, so dropped her a msg as well that this silence is keeping me down all day long. To this she replied back she is just keeping a little busy. The next day she initiated herself in a teasing way to ask if i m being too pricy by not talking to her that day. I kind of became positive again. She called up the next day when i was a little busy, and same thing happened over the weekend with long conversations. Although my assumption here is that she likes me as a friend, but she told me the last time we spoke that she doesnt want the expectations to build up from any side. And since she is from another religion (although from a well to do family), she is a little skeptical if we can carry it forward. I told her that should not be a problem if we both are clear that we love each other. I feel because of this reason she is deliberately controlling herself. That is why I hd asked her to be normal as she was prior to the time I told her about my feelings. She isnt talking that frequently now. This week we chatted occasionaly, some messages to which she hasn't replied. I am not feeling good about all this, although I am sure she will call back if i dont talk to her for 2-3 days. But its difficult for me to handle this.</p> <p>Lastly just to put things more clearly here, i have told her that I am not looking for a girlfrend, infact i am looking for a future partner and I am quite sure of her as my future partner. Would request to please give me an independent perspective to this. As since the things havent moved on much and I am in no way in a mood to let her go this time (obviously if i get an indication that she takes it positively).</p> <p>Tensed and confused.. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/need-advice#post-555 Wed, 06 Apr 2011 17:16:32 +0000 BABANGIDA 555@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>PLS HOW CAN I TALK TO HER ABOUT LOVE, IAM VERY WORRY. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/how-many-lovers-are-committed#post-554 Sun, 13 Mar 2011 16:53:19 +0000 PinkyLuvsU 554@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Yes,I am committed to my love, In fact I address him not as my lover but as my better-half.Yes, We see each other in our lifelong journey as true companions! </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/love-parents-dilemma-advices#post-553 Sun, 13 Mar 2011 16:33:43 +0000 PinkyLuvsU 553@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>I am Pinky, 19years Old.I am in love with a boy of my age. We are in relationship for about 10 months.Both of us have not taken our relation to be a college romance or teen love. We are serious about it!.But just after one month of our journey,His father caught us and called me secretly and advised to stop everything and move on.If not he'll let my parents know, and his mobile was banned.But since, Love is at its peak, he began using a secret phone and we kept in contact and we enjoyed in college.In the 4th month, his father once again caught us. And then, came to see my parents, and it all turned out to be really messy!But my parents though is strictly against all this, handled it smoothly and is behaving as if nothing has happened. They are making a very comfortable atmosphere at home and I am alloted full freedom as before.But on the contrary, everything is terrible at his house.Mom-dad keep taunting him about me, When he sits alone, they say, you are thinking about her and all.All in all, for every little thing, they make the hell out of it taking my name.Even his relatives does put this topic during their family get together's. He never gets peace of mind.He is trying his maximum to control his mind, but they again bring this topic and butchers him in short!We are still in contact..But, he is all in despair.He thinks that he is giving me hope when everything is negative at his home and thats bothering him!, he loves me a lot. Therefore, we are still moving on.But I cant see him suffering like this..We thought a lot.. Thinking about parting is next too unimaginable, since we cant! At the same time, cannot hurt parents in future by eloping or that stuff!!Can anyone advise us what to be done!?? I have just briefed the matter!.. thanks a lot in advance! </p> <p>A small Idea of the family :<br /> Mine, I am from Cochin,Kerala an urban family. my parents are orthodox but kind enough to understand the new generation and their preference.My dad is more like a friend to me.For mom, dad's word is the ultimate decision.So, for them, when this issue came, it was a shock, but they handled it extremely well.</p> <p>My Boy : A village family which is well settled. Bounded with traditional aspects yet modern but not so very outward in their thinking!. Dad is very very strict and still gives him a beating if he has done something wrong.Mom - is very innocent but she keeps worrying and telling about one matter on and on and on.Its her fear, but very shallow at heart!.. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-549 Fri, 04 Feb 2011 14:16:27 +0000 angel2011 549@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hello Saurabh,</p> <p>Sorry for the late reply. Thank you for the wishes.</p> <p>It is been over a year now and I am still missing him. But though it is difficult, I am trying to erase it out of my mind gradually. Logically, some things can and can't happen. And, love is not the only important thing in my life. So, I'm trying to ration it all out.</p> <p>I know that I like him, I want to be with him but don't like to take it forward. I can't bring myself to accept it as I am aware that my family is dead against love and pretty sure that they will never consent to this relationship.</p> <p>Even if I decide to get into the relationship with him, I will be forced to back out a short while later coz of my family. And, the suffer from the agony of separation will be worse then it is right now. This will administer a lot of pain to him.</p> <p>The reason I entered into this forum is because I was restless. I knew the limitations of my family &amp; I also knew that I like him. What I was unsure about was that whether I have to do something about it or let it be. I have ultimately decided that I should leave this here itself as I told in the previous post. Everyone will be happy.</p> <p>It is very appreciative that you have been very kind and helpful in this forum. Thank you for the so far advices. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-548 Thu, 03 Feb 2011 14:31:43 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 548@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hello angel,<br /> Nice to hear from you! All the best with your aims and goals! Let me wish the best for you both!<br /> Its great that you shared your feelings in this community of true lovers.<br /> But I would really like to know - How do you control yourself? You must be missing him, his glance, staring at you? every moment that sparkled something cosy between the you two?<br /> Dear, love is something about just love (no commitments, no exchanges, no benefits//).. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-547 Thu, 03 Feb 2011 04:36:01 +0000 angel2011 547@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi Saurabh,</p> <p>That is fine, thank you. I don't have any questions. Just wanted to share my feelings.</p> <p>I can ask you for advice only when I make any commitments. But right now I am not ready to make any commitments. There was nothing much happened between me and the guy. Hence, there is nothing to seek for advice. </p> <p>As far as his blog is concern, no, I don't want to contact him now. He is really ambitious and so am I. He is just 21. I don't want to divert his career-focused mind.<br /> I think I should leave this matter here itself.</p> <p>Thank you. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-546 Wed, 02 Feb 2011 18:53:58 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 546@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>But can you please ask your questions in points? I don't get your questions ?</p> <p>So, you found his blog, why don't you try and contact him via his blog ?</p> <p>Actually, in love, we make everything complex while love is itself very simple and elegant in its original form but we dupe it into another form of stringent complexity owing to our own fears and complex with which love isn't associated sometimes.</p> <p>If you're unsure whether you have a future with him ? - I would like to say, yeah.. You have a future with him but you need to find upon him. Get in touch with him, understand the more of him (I know you already understand him). Do you have the courage to revolt against your parents? Is he courageous in the same way ? Several things might be revolving in your mind but I am kinda confused as on exactly what question or confusion do you seek my advice. So list your questions and concerns in points so that I can present my say over every love questions of yours. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-545 Wed, 02 Feb 2011 05:05:12 +0000 angel2011 545@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi Saurabh. Thank you for your advice. </p> <p>I have known him only at my old workplace for 3 years. We never dated, never talked on phone. May be it wasn't needed as much as we used to see each other every third or fourth day at work. But as I said we used to be friendly to each other at work in the beginning. And as I have described about him in the 'ABOUT HIM' paragraph, that's all I know. And yes, as you were asking, I think he is kinda introvert. Everyone used to like praise him for his nature. But I think he hides his feelings. No I never projected my inclination towards him. Even if I wanted to, I didn't show it. </p> <p>O and to just let you know that I recently googled on his full name and I was able to find his blog which was recently created by him in which he wrote about himself. And while reading his blog, where he also wrote about his work history I came to know that he quit that job and now he has joined another job. While reading his blog what I realized is that he is quite ambitious! </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-544 Tue, 01 Feb 2011 19:19:10 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 544@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hello angel,<br /> Really romantic read is your writing! I read it more than thrice.<br /> This has always been a conceptually worried concern as whether to proceed and what to predict ?<br /> Well, Love isn't predictable. The flow that your writing contains depict more of your craving love for him than the so-called crush or so. It also allows me to think of a more happy you when you're with him, the mere feeling of his company takes you to your utmost comfy zone.<br /> Your worries concerns do have a point. A point connected with not just love but also with future. A point that seems too small but hell of a big tremor. You want to be with him but worry about how your parents will react, how the society would frame you both, age differences, mindset differences; aren't you?</p> <p>Does he love you ? - TO answer this, you should get these answers - How long have you been friends ? Is he kind of extrovert or introvert ? If extrovert, he should have gained enough courage to make a proposal.. Did you ever project your inclination towards him ?<br /> There are several other questions and assumptions associated that follow..<br /> I don't want to confuse either myself or you, hence I would like to ask you to make your questions in points to get a clear answer rather than diplomatically confusing assumptions. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-543 Tue, 01 Feb 2011 19:18:47 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 543@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hello angel,<br /> Really romantic read is your writing! I read it more than thrice.<br /> This has always been a conceptually worried concern as whether to proceed and what to predict ?<br /> Well, Love isn't predictable. The flow that your writing contains depict more of your craving love for him than the so-called crush or so. It also allows me to think of a more happy you when you're with him, the mere feeling of his company takes you to your utmost comfy zone.<br /> Your worries concerns do have a point. A point connected with not just love but also with future. A point that seems too small but hell of a big tremor. You want to be with him but worry about how your parents will react, how the society would frame you both, age differences, mindset differences; aren't you?</p> <p>Does he love you ? - TO answer this, you should get these answers - How long have you been friends ? Is he kind of extrovert or introvert ? If extrovert, he should have gained enough courage to make a proposal.. Did you ever project your inclination towards him ?<br /> There are several other questions and assumptions associated that follow..<br /> I don't want to confuse either myself or you, hence I would like to ask you to make your questions in points to get a clear answer rather than diplomatically confusing assumptions. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/a-question#post-542 Tue, 01 Feb 2011 18:59:53 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 542@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hello angel,<br /> Welcome to the community of lovers. The website is still active, also we have other developmental projects in relation to this website in our to do list.. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/a-question#post-541 Tue, 01 Feb 2011 06:46:23 +0000 angel2011 541@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi Saurabh,</p> <p>I have joined your website recently. Are you still using this website or forum for advising people? Or have you got another similar website or forum?</p> <p>Bye </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/is-this-love#post-540 Sun, 30 Jan 2011 18:04:02 +0000 angel2011 540@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi everyone.</p> <p>I don't know if I am at right place to seek advice.</p> <p>I don't know where to start from, to explain my issue. So I am writing every thing in detail. Sorry for the long long story.</p> <p>OK. I am 24 yr old South Indian Hindu gal and the guy I have issue with is 21 yr old a Catholic from Kerala. We both are in Canada. I have described about this guy in one of my last paragraphs.</p> <p>In 2006, I started a part-time student job at a restaurant as front staff. Then this guy started working at the same place in 2007 as part-time student too. In the beginning, we were just friendly to each other sometimes jokes, arguments, teasing each other etc. Then after a year and a half or so, he changed his attitude towards me like talking less, showing kindness, sometimes smiling, sometimes serious or sometimes just staring. Then one day while i was just talking with one of his friend who is also my co-worker slipped out of his mouth that this guy has crush on me. I just heard it and went away from there. I didn't take it seriously at all as I thought it must be like one of his stupid pranks. I pretended as if I haven't heard it properly. Even though if it was kinda true still I didn't wanted to accept it. I have explained the reasons for this in one of last few paragraphs. Then, as usual the same attitude was continued.</p> <p>Then I went to India for a month of vacation. When I came back from India, I noticed some kind of happiness on his face when we saw each other. Even myself. I don't know why. And he continued the same attitude again. Yet, I was behaving normally with him as I used to. Then, whenever I had a shift to work and he doesn't, he started staring at me sometimes from outside the store through a glass window where he used to park his car at distance in a parking lot right across the window. Days passed away like that.</p> <p>I don't know exactly what he meant for his staring whether as a joke or serious. I have to admit that he hadn't any bad intentions with that staring. Coz, much against my wish, I eventually get lost in his eyes whenever we make an eye contact. At that time, my heart falters in doubts of hope and despair. Wish I cud read exactly the language of his eyes.</p> <p>Then, sometimes we used to have shifts at different days and different timings. At those times I started having this strange feeling. Like i used to miss him, eager to see him. When I see him I used to be happy. And sometimes when we used to work together, I used to ask him to help for silly things. Despite of that he still used to help. But, Still we didn't communicate with each other that much.</p> <p>Then in 2009 beginning of the summer, I got admission from a university(which is very far away from that place) to start from September. So I informed my manager about it that i have to quit the job in two months. Somehow all the staff came to knew about it including him. Then I noticed that he seemed so upset. He didn't try to show it but i kinda read his face. Everyone were asking questions about me leaving them but he didn't utter a word. He started taking night shifts and I used to hardly see him at work. Then on the last day of my job, everyone came to the workplace to say me bye even his friends. I was looking throughout my shift if he comes and says bye to me. But he didn't. I thought he just has no courtesy to say bye. My shift was over , my dad came to pick me up. And as i stepped outside, what i see is, he is sitting in his car next to my dads car, just seeing me leaving. That last eye contact continuously for like a min was extremely painful for me. I couldn't speak to him coz my dad was next to me.</p> <p>It always questions in my mind that if he was along with his friends on that day then why did he come inside with them to say me bye. Instead he sat in his car until I left and watch me going.</p> <p>But when we had an eye lock moment at those last few minutes was breathtaking like I almost stopped breathing for a moment. As hard as I try to describe what I saw and felt in His eyes, I fall short every time. I heard nothing, said nothing. Yet, why I was restless at heart?</p> <p>ABOUT HIM: Basically, as far as I know him at workplace for like 3 years, what I came to know gradually in these 3 years was that he is sort of a different guy among his friends. He and his friends are well known to my other coworkers. What i came to know from them was that, while all of his friends have girlfriends and always talk about girls and etc. etc., he doesn't even have one girlfriend. But he is normally very friendly and helpful to everyone as I noticed. And always cracking jokes sometimes silly.</p> <p>Now at present since i have come here so far. Its been a more than a year and, I keep thinking of him always, dream of him, his eyes. A strange feeling torments my heart. But I cannot contact him neither can he as i don't know his phone no. I cant even go and meet him as I live so far now.</p> <p>REASONS: At one side I wanted him but at the same time I didn't want to fall in this pit as :-<br /> 1) our relationship will not be accepted at all by my parents coz of age difference and different religion.<br /> 2)I don't know if he still likes me or not and if he does is it more than just a crush or not?<br /> 3) I have no clue where to start from to know about this. I don't know if he is still working there or not.<br /> 4) I had this thought in my mind that even if i accept him now, it will be fine for sometime coz we will be together as wanted. But, later on, when it is time to tell our parents about us, they wont accept it. And the pain that it will give of falling apart will be more painful than it is right now.</p> <p>But now i am helpless. Why I keep thinking of him, dreaming of him? I feel like something is dragging me.</p> <p>Can this be love or is it something else?</p> <p>please give me suggestions. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/need-advice#post-539 Mon, 24 Jan 2011 23:58:56 +0000 Arush 539@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>I like a girl in my clg. Main usey 1 saal se dekh raha hu. I think i am in love with her, but i have'nt spoken to her yet not even for friendship also. Infact main thoda darta hu, ke kahi woh mujhse baat karne mana na karde. But i realy love her, i didn't able to focus on my study for this. Jab bhi uske baare main sochta hu toh chehre pe muskan a jati h, usey roz pehle clg main dekhta hu phir class attend karta hu. Actualy woh mere branch ki nhi h, aur we didn't have any common friend ke jiske through main ussey baat kar saku.<br /> Pls tell me main kya karu. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/my-it-girl#post-538 Mon, 24 Jan 2011 23:41:17 +0000 Arush 538@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>This is just a msg, sirf uske liye.</p> <p>Usey dekhkar din ki suruat hoti h, aur usey dekhkar din khatm hota. Mujhe nhi pata that she has the same feeling as i have for her infact even i don't know that whether she know me or not. </p> <p>Usey na dekhu toh dukh hota h, door se hi sahi par yadi woh dikh jaye toh dil ko sukun pahuchta h. Usey dekhne ke liye pehle uske department jata hu, phir apne department jata hu class attend karne.<br /> Nothing going right! Kuch din bache hai college k aur phir sab khatm. Pata nhi kabhi kuch keh pauonga ya nhi. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/0-1#post-526 Mon, 08 Nov 2010 17:46:01 +0000 SaurabhStar , the admin 526@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Just ask her about her past life, her family especially about her father.. How she enjoys, what is turn off for her.. what would she like to do if she is free to do anything or everything.. etc.. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/0-1#post-525 Sat, 06 Nov 2010 14:57:39 +0000 ibrahim 525@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>tell me some questions 2 sk my gf ...she calls me every 2 hrs and i m not talkative at all </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/i-need-your-help#post-323 Sat, 28 Aug 2010 14:57:16 +0000 ravipgin 323@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>hi freind, me ek ldki se bahot pyar karta hu me usse ek din baat nahi karta hu to muje chain nahi milta hai. pehle woh mujse roj baat karti thi who bhi mujse baat kiye bina reh nahi sakti thi lekin kuch dino se woh muje baat bahot kam karti hai me use phone kata hu tab woh baat karti lekin muje roj bolti hai ki mai aapko kal phone karugi lekin woh nahi karti hai muje hi karna padta hai me kya karu use pehle jaisa hamara pyaar rahe. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/i-need-your-help#post-317 Thu, 13 May 2010 12:26:24 +0000 heartlylove 317@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>help </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/please-help-me#post-316 Thu, 13 May 2010 12:15:10 +0000 heartlylove 316@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi dears</p> <p>i want shares some my history i love one girl so much last 2 years back we met in office i am admin officer and she was sales coordinator every time my targets i am help all my staff members etc... days was going fast in my mind i want good &amp; true friendship &amp; i am close to close but she is already boy friend and she was normal love but not so much every time my wish i am helping her when i am helping her she was very happy days going fast to fast some time i am purchasing red roses, gifts sweets and many more in my mind we are good &amp; true friend some time she was going with me bus stop, near to home, purchasing some books ets...i dont no when she living in my heart but some time i observe she was not frienship me but i dont no i love her last years i am very miss every time i heared she was wedding she was no invite me i dont no but my some office members attend his wedding i am so love and she is every time my imaginings etc... i dont no she was happy or not but every time prayer her and my wish i see and tells my heart voices my words but i heared she was out of country and i am also out of country i need your help, suggestions and gide lines </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/intro-please-introduce-urself#post-312 Thu, 06 May 2010 03:29:12 +0000 yucatans 312@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>hey michael here aka yucatans. 19 years old. love and tech is filled like anything man.<br /> mujhe me bahut sa pyar bhara hai sabhi acchi ladkiyon ke liye.<br /> i would like to spend some time here. share some views , share my feelings , and get reviews and stuff .</p> <p>its nice to be here<br /> anywyas saurabh , very nice forum and a good project that will live always </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/ihave-no-girlfriend-what-can-i-do#post-304 Sat, 24 Apr 2010 22:11:53 +0000 MoriahToniOwens 304@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Hi in my opinion simplest way to impreess the girl u can speak truely with us u loved her and do something unique for her.. </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/girls-are-good-but-not-all#post-303 Sat, 24 Apr 2010 22:09:37 +0000 MoriahToniOwens 303@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>Good Answer thank for sharing a nice answers </p> http://vlovers.com/forum/topic/the-song-that-tunes-ur-heart-in-rhythm#post-302 Sat, 24 Apr 2010 22:07:24 +0000 MoriahToniOwens 302@http://vlovers.com/forum/ <p>My fav song is Koi Fariyad(TUM BIn movie) </p>